Divorce Isn’t a Shame

Divorce Isn’t a Shame

  “It’s a shame,” she said when I had the guts to tell her I was getting a divorce. “Yeah, well, not for me,” I replied. And for anyone else thinking my divorce is or should be a shame for me, I ask you to rethink your unconscious response to something that’s...

The Hard Work of Letting Things be Easy

Growing up, straight A’s were the goal. Perfection. Achieving less than that meant not good enough.  Imagine; less than perfect = not enough. Fast forward past school to first job. A perfect performance appraisal was the goal. Secondarily the maximum amount of...

What to do When You Feel Like Giving Up

I listen to a lot of self help, educational, self-development and inner inquiry stuff. It’s like my hobby. I’ve currently finished Marie Forleo’s B-School and as a part of a bonus I received Kris Carr’s Crazy Sexy Business course. The quote...

You Make the Rules About What Success Means

My biggest success as a business owner came during a lightbulb moment that shone through me as bright as a carnival spot light. “Mom, I think I know what I was born for,” I spoke the words on the phone and barely sputtered out the last of them before I broke down. I...